Coming Out Again, This Time As Bisexual

In 2021, I wrote a post called “What Pride Month Means To Me.” I will be posting a link to that post below. In that post, I had come out as pansexual. Later on, however, I began questioning my sexuality. It was very stressful to have gone through that period of questioning, considering the fact that I had questioned my sexuality in the past throughout much of high school and almost all of college. 

I had begun feeling like I was justifying being pansexual in my head. The more I thought about it, the more I realized I was more likely to be bisexual. The one thing that made me question being bisexual was that I thought that I was bisexual when I first started coming out to my friends my senior year of college, however, within months of coming out, I felt that I was actually pansexual. I posted about it on my social media pages, saying that my pansexual self was searching for people with attractive personalities on a TV show or saying that my pansexuality intensified at the thought of people being their awesome selves.

After quite a bit of questioning, I started identifying myself as queersexual. It felt like a happy medium as I figured out who I was, and I knew that I was a member of the LGBTQ+ community. Then, I realized that I was right the first time around when I began telling my peers about who I loved. The long period of questioning could finally come to an end. I am happy to say that I am happily bisexual, I love myself for who I am, and am proud to be the person that I am.

What Pride Month Means To Me – Elephants & Extra Base Hits (elephantsandextrabasehits.com)

I Thought I Was Pansexual, And Then Realized That I Am Queersexual Instead – Elephants & Extra Base Hits (elephantsandextrabasehits.com)

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